Some people find it impossible to own up to their mistakes. Some people would rather loose friends and family then admit to doing wrong or causing hurt. Others are so unaware of the impact they have on people around them that they may never know what it feels like to have a guilty conscience. Whatever their reasons are, however they view themselves or a situation, if someone has hurt you and does not own their actions ask yourself, are they someone who lifts you up or holds you back? Those who love us lift us up and take responsibility when they hurt us.